[As much as she doesn't want to push him to talk about himself and to pry into how he's feeling... it is kind of her job now, isn't it?]

I remained myself this time around. But I was her last time this happened. It wasn't a pleasant experience and I was shaken up for a while. But it was good to figure out what to expect. You do remember your time as him, right? [Talking about herself first seems to be the key.]